Purpose isn’t fluff—it’s your game plan. When you align your actions with your values and dreams, you make sharper decisions and create the future you truly want. And, you’ve got to do the work. Reflection isn’t just staring out a window with a latte—it’s where the magic happens. It’s about dreaming bigger, reconnecting with joy, and releasing what no longer serves you.

Here are some prompts to get you started:

• Values Check: When was the last time you revisited your top five values? These are your non-negotiables, your internal GPS. Values can evolve—make sure yours still align with the life you want to lead.
• Natural Talents: What comes effortlessly to you? What would you refuse to give up, even for $2 million? Are you using your talents fully? If not, why?
• Stops: What drained you in 2024? Identify what no longer serves you and let it go.
• Dreams Do Come True: Dream boldly. Imagine outrageous possibilities. What could make 2025 unforgettable?
• Purpose Reset: What is 2025 going to mean for you? Define it. Own it. Live it.
• Broadcast Your Vision: Share your goals with someone who will hold you accountable—and do the same for them.

As the saying goes, “If you don’t know where you’re going, any road will take you there.” Don’t wander aimlessly—chart your path with purpose and intention. Let’s step into 2025 ready, strong, and focused.

Dream it. Define it. Live it.

With the Keep It Real Leadership Program, you’ll be equipped with the right tools to turn your 2025 ambitions into reality. Contact us today to discuss how we can empower you along your journey!

Till the next time, keep it real.

Karen

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Here’s a guide with actionable steps to help you manage team conflict effectively and turn it into an opportunity for positive change.

• Cultivate Self-Awareness : Understanding your leadership style and how you respond under pressure is crucial for effective conflict management. Your strengths can sometimes become your weaknesses when overextended during stressful situations. For instance, while setting high standards can drive excellence, a team grappling with challenges may perceive it as an unattainable demand for perfection. Recognize these tendencies and adjust your approach to maintain a balanced leadership style, focusing on team goals while supporting individual growth.
• Understand Your Team’s Diversity to Recognize the Power of Differences : The strength of a team lies in its diversity – diverse personalities, skills, and experiences. Embrace this diversity and recognize the unique contributions each team member brings. Foster an environment that values different perspectives and encourages collaboration. Building awareness and appreciation for diversity creates a foundation for understanding and resolving conflicts effectively.
• Prioritize Active Listening : In the rush to meet deadlines, it’s tempting to quickly resolve conflicts by imposing a solution. However, this approach rarely leads to lasting resolutions. Instead, make time to listen to all sides of the conflict actively. By understanding each team member’s underlying concerns and perspectives, you can help the team co-create solutions that address everyone’s needs, fostering a sense of ownership and commitment.
• Foster Open Communication : Encourage open communication by creating a safe space for team members to share their ideas and concerns. Actively seek input from all team members, especially less vocal ones. By promoting a culture of open communication, you empower team members to contribute to productive discussions, turning conflicts into opportunities for innovative problem-solving.
• Embrace Collaborative Problem-Solving : Harness the power of diverse thinking by creating an environment that values fresh ideas and approaches. Encourage team members to collaborate and co-create solutions that leverage their unique skills and perspectives. Reach out to less vocal people to ensure their ideas are heard and included. When everyone feels valued, and their contributions are acknowledged, conflicts transform into collaborative discussions that lead to innovative solutions.
• Reflect and Refocus : Learn from the challenges faced by the team and use them as opportunities for growth. Embrace the lessons learned from past conflicts, refocus on the team’s goals, and chart a clear path forward. By acknowledging past mistakes and understanding what went wrong, you can guide the team towards a more successful and harmonious future.

Conflict, while challenging, can be an opportunity for growth and innovation when managed effectively. This guide can help you foster a culture of accountability and equip the team with skills to handle conflict through communication. With this solid foundation in place, leaders can devote more time and resources to steering their organizations toward future triumphs rather than constantly firefighting.

If you want to learn more about effective leadership and conflict resolution strategies, check out our Keep it Real Leadership Program.

Remember, with the right approach, conflicts can be transformed into opportunities for positive change and growth. Lead with purpose, embrace diversity, and navigate through conflicts with confidence!

Till the next time, keep it real.

Karen

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• Team performance by 17%
• Decision-making quality by 20%
• Team collaboration by 29%

Diverse teams perform better because each person brings multiple perspectives, experiences, and approaches to the table. These varying approaches and thought processes create a dynamic that is better equipped to deal with complex problems and challenges. Additionally, diverse personality traits within a team offset one another and build on each other for synergy and innovation. A diverse team is much less likely to fall into “groupthink,” which can actually impede performance. 

Diverse and inclusive teams do not form on their own. It all starts with its leaders!

Here are several strategies leaders can implement to promote diversity and inclusion:

• Lead by Example: Leaders need to demonstrate a commitment to diversity and inclusion through their actions, behaviors, and decision-making processes. This includes actively listening to diverse perspectives, valuing contributions from all members, and ensuring fairness in opportunities and rewards.
• Establish Clear Policies and Practices: Implement policies and practices that foster diversity and inclusion throughout the organization. This can include recruitment and hiring practices that prioritize diversity, promoting equal opportunities for advancement, and creating a culture of respect and inclusion.
• Foster Open Communication: Encourage open dialogue and communication among team members to promote understanding and empathy. Provide platforms for employees to share their experiences and perspectives and actively seek feedback on diversity and inclusion initiatives.
• Create Support Networks: Establish support networks and affinity groups for employees from underrepresented backgrounds. These groups provide a sense of belonging, networking opportunities, and a platform for advocating for diversity and inclusion within the organization.
• Embed Diversity in Organizational Values: Ensure that diversity and inclusion are embedded in the organization’s mission, values, and strategic goals. This sends a clear message that diversity is not just a checkbox but a fundamental aspect of the organization’s identity and success.

By prioritizing diversity and inclusion, leaders can create a more innovative, collaborative, and inclusive workplace where all employees feel valued and empowered to succeed.

Let them know, loud and clear, that ALL of them are necessary.

To learn more about how to implement diversity and inclusion in your organization, check out our Keep it Real Leadership Program. 

Till the next time, keep it real.

Karen

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Here are several steps that leaders and individual employees can take to normalize accountability:

• Set the Tone at the Top: If you never accept personal responsibility for something, how can you expect your team to? Leaders serve as role models, and their behavior and actions set the standard for the entire organization.
• Create a trusting environment : Encourage open communication where all team members are encouraged to share successes and failures for the purpose of learning and continuous improvement.
• Find (and share) the lesson in failure : What could you have done better? What will you change? Acknowledge the impact that your actions (or lack of action) had. Embracing accountability means acknowledging mistakes and learning from them.
• Align Goals and Values : When leaders consistently uphold their commitments and demonstrate accountability, it reinforces the importance of the organization’s values, creating a shared sense of purpose among team members. Be sure those are clearly defined and understood.
• Avoid the blame game : Leaders who take responsibility for their actions set the expectation that the focus can be on problem-solving and improvement rather than assigning blame. Ditch the excuses. Take the blame. Apply what you learned. And do better next time.

In summary, leadership accountability serves as a cornerstone for a positive organizational culture by shaping behaviors, fostering trust, encouraging learning, and promoting values that contribute to the overall success and well-being of the organization.

Want to learn more about how you can practice and encourage accountability in the workplace? Check out my Keep It Real Leadership program!

Till the next time, keep it real.

Karen

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But how do you create that special magic that results in not just an effective team but a high-performing team?

Here are six proven strategies to build and foster a strong team:

• Establish a clear purpose and specific goals: A high-performing team is defined by individuals who not only comprehend the shared purpose and milestones but also collaboratively contribute to defining the means to reach those goals. Clear communication of team goals, objectives, and expectations ensures alignment among members, fostering a deeper commitment to the common purpose and enhancing overall performance.
• Create a sense of mutual accountability: Be sure everyone clearly understands expectations. Challenge your team to higher performance goals and establish an environment where they hold themselves – and each other – accountable for results. Include regular progress reports, open sharing of mistakes made and lessons learned, and team discussions on moving through roadblocks.
• Encourage open communication and constructive feedback: The key to building a high-performing team lies in continuous communication. Foster a culture of open communication, encouraging team members to share ideas, concerns, and feedback while actively listening and promoting collaborative discussions.
• Build Trust: Trust is the foundation of any successful team. Be transparent, honest, and reliable in your interactions. Trust is earned through consistent actions, so demonstrate your commitment to the team’s success.
• Promote Team Bonding:Organize team-building activities or events to help team members get to know each other personally. This can improve communication, understanding, and collaboration among team members.
• Recognize and Celebrate Achievements: Acknowledge and celebrate both individual and team achievements. Recognition boosts morale and motivates team members to continue working hard. It also reinforces a positive and supportive team culture.

Remember that effective team building is an ongoing process that requires continuous attention and effort. By investing time and energy into these strategies, you can create a positive and cohesive team that thrives and achieves its goals.

To learn more about effective team building, check out our Keep It Real Leadership program! Keep It Real Leadership is a human-centered program that nurtures leaders to embrace their strengths and deliver on their goals. Together, we can take you and your team to the next level!

Till the next time, keep it real.

Karen

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According to LinkedIn, the benefits of self-reflection for leaders are:

• Strategic thinking
• Self-awareness
• Nurturing empathy and relationships
• Learning and growth
• Enhanced decision-making

But what exactly does self-reflection look like?

Making time for self-reflection may seem awkward at first (especially if you are an extrovert), but it’s worth it to take the time. Here’s how that might look.

Let’s use the example of the behavior “impatience.” You’ve gotten feedback from others that you tend to be impatient with people who don’t think and speak at the same pace as you. You know this about yourself and even, on occasion, cut someone off by saying, “just get to the bottom line.”

Next, you have to take the time to look inside and ask yourself why you react that way, how it impacts those around you, and what you can do to change the behavior. Self-reflection means being vulnerable, being willing to admit the behaviors that are working against you, and clarifying a plan to move beyond the behavior.

Self-reflection is also a way to ensure that you are living and working according to your values and what you want to achieve. It’s a way to level set if you’ve gotten off course.

Here are 10 questions as a starting point for self-reflection:

• Am I using my time wisely?
• Am I taking anything for granted?
• Am I employing a healthy perspective?
• Am I living true to myself?
• Am I waking up in the morning ready to take on the day?
• Am I thinking negative thoughts before I fall asleep?
• Am I putting enough effort into my relationships?
• Am I taking care of myself physically?
• Am I letting matters that are out of my control stress me out?
• Am I achieving the goals that I’ve set for myself?

Sometime this week, grab your favorite beverage and set aside some time to reflect on a behavior you want to change or to just do a general reset. Take a pause that refreshes you.

With the Keep It Real Leadership program, you could get the right coaching to help you through your self-reflection process! Keep It Real Leadership is a human-centered program that nurtures leaders to become more self-aware, embrace their strengths, and deliver in their business leaders. Together we can take your leadership journey to the next level!

Till the next time, keep it real.

Karen

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Each generation brings its own particular strengths and “peculiarities” to the team. Stereotypes abound in today’s workplaces, and leaders struggle to determine how best to engage and retain team members from these five age groups.

I personally think it’s simple: value the differences.

As Stephen Covey said, “Strength lies in differences, not in similarities.”

Recognize that each individual brings to the workplace different experiences, knowledge, belief systems, ideas, skills, communication styles, fears, hopes, and dreams. No matter the age or generation, there are differences.

With that in mind, here are my tips for managing and working effectively on a multi-generational team.

• Focus on the VALUE each generation brings to the workplace. Respect the experience of older team members while also valuing the fresh perspectives that younger team members bring. Remember that it’s about talent…not age…
• Acknowledge and embrace the DIVERSITY of the generations. Celebrate birthdays, milestones, and achievements to build a sense of camaraderie and teamwork. Take the time to learn about the characteristics and tendencies of different age groups (Baby Boomers, Gen X, Millennials, Gen Z, etc.) to understand their perspectives better.
• Use multiple communication streams to address each person’s style. Recognize that different generations may have varying work styles. Some may prefer face-to-face meetings, while others might be more comfortable with virtual communication. Be flexible and adaptable in accommodating these preferences.
• Learn from the other generations on your team. Create opportunities for team members of different ages to work together. Encourage cross-mentoring, where older employees share their knowledge and younger employees offer insights into new technologies and trends. This can help bridge generation gaps and foster a sense of unity within the team.
• Promote open communication. Create an environment where team members feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and ideas. Encourage open dialogue that respects each person’s viewpoint, regardless of age.
• Keep learning. Each generation has its own values, communication preferences, and work habits. Be open to continuously learning about generational trends and adapting your leadership approach accordingly. What works well today might need adjustments in the future.

Leading a team with people of different ages can be both rewarding and challenging. Remember, effective leadership involves understanding and respecting individual differences while fostering a cohesive and collaborative team environment. By embracing these tips, you can lead a multi-generational team to success.

Till the next time, keep it real.

Karen

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Company culture plays a key role in retaining employees. A great culture, one that provides challenging work, opportunities for growth, connections, respect, and recognition is more likely to retain employees than the one that takes it for granted.

Nowadays with hybrid and fully-remote workspaces, establishing a strong culture can be a little challenging. Many employees who have been hired in the past three years have never met their co-workers or even their leader in person. They might be feeling adrift or disconnected.

How can leaders help employees be connected and engaged and become part of their company’s culture?

Develop a clear and consistent definition of the culture. A great culture is more than after-work events (in person or zoom), wellness programs, and catchy slogans. It’s how employees, customers and the outside world perceive an organization based on its attitudes and behaviors. It’s where employees feel valued, connected, challenged, and recognized. And it stems from leadership behavior at all organizational levels.

Communicate the culture. Make it easy to describe. Make it real. Do a periodic check-up to ensure that all parts of your culture are healthy and if not, review, adjust and get back on track. Every new hire (including remote ones) should receive an orientation that includes a discussion about company culture, vision, mission, and values. Consider having long-term (positive) employees/leaders describe the culture and give examples of how they’ve seen it demonstrated in their experience.

Demonstrate the culture. Make it an expectation that all interactions leader-leader, leader-employee, employee-employee align with the company values and promote the culture. Give new hires a strong start by helping them understand how their role contributes to the overall success of their team and the organization.

And last, but certainly not least, remember that it’s about the PEOPLE, PEOPLE, PEOPLE. Hiring the brightest and the best does you no good if you don’t take care of them. Be clear about their roles and responsibilities. Help them understand the values and the culture. Keep developing them, provide them with new challenges, and develop a work environment where every level of the organization is valued, connected, challenged, and recognized.

If you would like to learn more about how you can build a culture to attract, develop, and retain your top talent, join me for my next Leadership Power Hour webinar. You can register here for free.

Till the next time, keep it real.

Karen

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In recent years, long working hours and isolation have led to burnout and as a result, an increase in depression and anxiety. According to the World Health Organization, in the U.S. there has been a loss of $1 trillion dollars in productivity.

Post-pandemic, a majority of companies still have hybrid work conditions and employees are continuing to feel stressed. The American Institute of Stress found that:

• 55% of Americans are stressed during the day
• 63% of employees want to leave their job to avoid stress
• 76% said their workplace stress is affecting their personal relationships
• 35% of employees said their bosses are the main source of stress
• And 39% report their workload causes them stress

It’s no wonder that droves of employees are heading toward the door and making a decision to leave their current employment.

Here are some suggestions on how Leaders can address workplace stress:

• Hold a workshop to identify common stressors and brainstorm possible solutions for managers and employees.
• Align company policies with best practices for preventing stress and burnout.
• Educate employees about available stress management and mental health resources, including your EAP (Employee Assistance Program) and health plan.
• Offer activities like meditation and yoga, mindfulness programs or apps, or resilience training.
• Continue asking for feedback and improving so that stress management becomes integral to your culture.

It’s also important for employees to feel empowered and to know when to say “when.”

Here are some tips for employees:

1) It’s okay not to be okay. There’s no shame in admitting you’re overwhelmed or overworked or simply burned out. We saw some great examples of this in the recent Olympics when several athletes prioritized their mental health over others’ expectations and accolades.

2) Take frequent breaks during the day. Breaks are even more important in a remote and hybrid world, according to Dr. Mary Donohue, Founder of Digital Wellness. “In the digital age, information is overwhelming and can lead to a constant state of panic. You need to make a quiet space in your day to allow your brain to distill the constant flow of information.”

3) Talk to your leader. Explain what’s going on and work together to co-create a solution and learn about resources for help. Some time off, a flexible schedule, taking advantage of the EAP program, for example.

4) Make time to feed your soul. Whatever makes you happy, makes you laugh, calms you down, just do it. On a regular basis.

5) Use your vacation time. And TOTALLY disconnect.

Remember, if you don’t take care of yourself, you’re not going to be good for anyone or anything!

Find even more stress busters in my Stress for Success podcast series.

Till the next time, keep it real.

Karen

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Now, I get that giving feedback isn’t always easy. For that matter, neither is RECEIVING feedback, but we’ll talk about that next time. Often when we hear the phrase, “I’d like to give you some feedback…” our defenses go up and we prepare for the worst.

Giving feedback, however, shouldn’t immediately trigger a negative response. Feedback is actually very much a positive. It’s a real opportunity to help someone get better and stronger. And as leaders, it’s our responsibility to help our employees get better and stronger.

Remember, employees want to know how they’re doing. You may believe “no news is good news” yet your employees may not see it that way. They may interpret your silence as apathy, and begin to wonder, “Why do I even bother?” Take the time to acknowledge and show appreciation for their efforts. Likewise, if there’s an issue, don’t assume it will resolve itself. Unless you say something, they may not realize there’s a problem. Poor performance does not improve with age.

Effective feedback is a gift and provides benefits for all.

Here’s how to give feedback that matters.

Make it timely. This doesn’t mean you have to praise them each time they complete a task. Be sincere! It means saying “thank you” immediately when they’ve made an extra effort or providing praise shortly after they’ve solved a complex problem or achieved a new skill. It also means giving negative feedback no later than 24 hours after observing the behavior. And be sure the feedback is based on your observation rather than what you’ve heard from others. Giving feedback regularly will help you build trust with your employees and make them more receptive and motivated to improve.

Make it specific. Focus on facts not feelings. Use the SAR method. Situation. Action. Results. “Thank you, Jane, for stepping in to complete that report while John was out. Without your help we would not have been able to complete the project milestone.” Or, “Bob, I’ve read through your proposal and some of the figures don’t quite add up. Accuracy on these proposals is essential to avoid future issues with the client.” Be sure you don’t fall into the “but” trap. “I really like your approach on the presentation, but I think the slides are too busy.” What will the employee hear? “The slides are too busy.” Use “and” instead. “I really like your approach on the presentation, and I think it will have more impact if you have fewer words on each slide.”

Be kind. As frustrating as the behavior may be, keep a check on your emotions and words. Stick to the facts and focus on the solution moving forward. Help them understand how what they do – or don’t do – impacts other individuals, the team, the project, or the organization. Also, be sure that you conduct negative feedback in private.

Listen. Deliver your feedback in a manner that allows a two-way conversation versus a finger-pointing monologue. Be open to the employee’s ideas as to how they might improve. Include them in designing the development process.

Follow through. Giving the feedback and recommendations is just the first step. If you leave it there nothing will happen. Once you’ve clearly defined expectations and next steps, help your employee improve by keeping them accountable. Set specific goals and periodic check-ins. Revisit the conversation to acknowledge progress made and/or reinforce development plans.

“Feedback is the breakfast of champions.” – Ken Blanchard

For more on feedback, tune into my “Giving Feedback That Matters” podcast.

Till next time,

Karen

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“I don’t know how it happened.”

“I think Sally is the bottleneck.”

“It’s not my job.”

“I didn’t have time to do it.”

“It’s not my fault.”

“No one else got theirs in on time.”

Sound familiar? I agree with Ben Franklin, who said, “He that is good for making excuses is seldom good for anything else.”

It’s time to ditch the excuses and create a culture of accountability. And it takes leaders, teams and individuals working together to create and maintain that culture.

Leaders:

Set the example by owning up to your mistakes, oversights, missteps. If you never accept personal responsibility for something, how can you expect your team to?

Find (and share) the lesson in the failure. What could you have done better, what will you change? Acknowledge the impact that your actions (or lack of action) had.

Create a trusting environment with open communication where all team members are encouraged to share successes and failures for the purpose of learning and continuous improvement.

Be clear about expectations. Employees are responsible for tasks and activities and accountable for outcomes. Be sure those are clearly defined and understood.

Hold people accountable. Be clear about both expectations and consequences.

Teams/Individual employees:

Understand what accountability means. Merriam-Webster defines it as “the quality or state of being accountable, especially: an obligation or willingness to accept responsibility or to account for one’s actions.” A lot of people use responsibility and accountability interchangeably. A responsibility is something you are required or expected to do, such as an activity or task. Accountability is you owning up to the consequences if you don’t do it or the outcomes are less than expected. Accountability is after the fact.

Avoid the blame game. Children often deflect blame because they are afraid of getting in trouble. Some adults do it for the same reason. Others because they are embarrassed and want to save face. Still others (one particular example in the news a lot lately) because their POV is that nothing that goes wrong is ever, ever their fault. It’s always someone else’s. Pulease! Be a grown up. Accept the blame. Apply what you learned. And do better next time.

Ditch the excuses. Instead simply say: “Yes, it was my fault. I dropped the ball. Here’s what I learned. Here’s how I’ll make sure it doesn’t happen again.”

As a team, hold each other accountable. Get clear about interdependencies and the impact of mistakes and missed deadlines. Work on creating an environment of open, honest communication that will support this.

“If you don’t have time to do it right, when will you have the time to do it over?” – John Wooden

Till next time,

Karen

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What’s your approach to giving feedback? Are you doing it on a regular basis? Here are some best practices to get you started.

1. Give it often. Employees want to know how they’re doing. You may believe “no news is good news” yet your employees may not see it that way. They may interpret your silence as apathy, and begin to wonder, “Why do I even bother?” Take the time to acknowledge, and show appreciation for their efforts. Likewise, if there’s an issue, don’t assume it will resolve itself. Unless you say something they may not realize there’s a problem. Bad performance does not improve with age.
2. Make it timely. This doesn’t mean you have to praise them each time they complete a task. Be sincere! It means saying “thank you” immediately when they’ve made an extra effort, or providing praise shortly after they’ve solved a complex problem or achieved a new skill. It also means giving negative feedback no later than 24 hours after observing the behavior. And be sure the feedback is based on your observation rather than what you’ve heard from others.
3. Be specific. Use the SAR method. Situation. Action. Results. “Thank you, Jane, for stepping in to complete that report while John was out. Without your help we would not have been able to complete the project milestone.” Or, “Bob, I’ve read through your proposal and some of the figures don’t quite add up. Accuracy on these proposals is essential to avoid future issues with the client.” Be sure you don’t fall into the “but” trap. “I really like your approach on the presentation, but I think the slides are too busy.” What will the employee hear? “The slides are too busy.” Use “and” instead. “I really like your approach on the presentation, and I think it will have more impact if you have fewer words on each slide.”
4. Listen. Feedback should be a dialogue, not a monologue. Be open to ideas from the employee as to how they might improve, or how they’d like to better utilize their natural talents. And set a good example by being open to their feedback about your approach, leadership style, communication, etc.
5. Follow through. Giving the feedback and recommendations is just the first step. If you leave it there nothing will happen. Help develop your employees by keeping them accountable. Revisit the conversation to acknowledge progress made and/or reinforce development plans.

And most of all, be respectful and kind. A recent New York Times article gave some shocking statistics about rudeness in the workplace and how it impacts employee health and performance, creativity and customer loyalty. Guess what? Nice guys (and gals) finish first. Be one.

Till next time,

Karen

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