If you’ve been following my advice about taking some “ME” time this summer, you may have had an opportunity to reflect on your life so far. What have you learned that you wish you’d known 20 years ago? What did you NOT do that you wish you’d done (there’s still time!) And what advice would you give your younger self if you could? We posed this last question to our followers and networks a while back and got some really insightful answers. In case you missed it (or would like a second look) I’m sharing it again. I’d love to hear from you if you have something to add; please comment.
The majority of the responses fell into three major categories. All good advice!
DON’T BE AFRAID.
-It’s all about attitude. Have a great attitude, show up with it and leave with it every day.
-Don’t tell people what you think they want to hear. Be yourself and believe in your gut!
-Always take a calculated risk – it will pay off in the long run.
-Every challenge in life builds strength and character.
-Never let fear hold you back from life.
-Be yourself and don’t be afraid to speak your truth!
-Be more assertive and confident. Be more direct, and STOP apologizing!
DARE TO DREAM!
-Listen, observe and learn – be like a sponge and absorb everything you can. Wisdom is precious.
-Be patient. You WILL get everything you aspire to. Calm down!
-Don’t take the easy road, and dare to follow your dreams.
-Have enough faith and confidence in yourself to seize opportunities.
-Don’t worry what other people think about you.
-Carpe diem –seize the day.
-Plan ahead, but still enjoy the moment.
-Live the life that YOU were meant to live.
BE KIND TO YOURSELF.
-Follow your heart. Have as much fun as possible!
-Treat yourself with kindness and respect and don’t allow yourself to be abused by anyone.
-Take your time. Life goes faster than you could possibly imagine.
-Enjoy the body that you have, it will change quicker than you think.
-Don’t be compelled to accommodate the needs of others.
-Pick a career that you love and not one that your parents think is good for you.
-Turn off that negative recording in your head. See that you truly are beautiful just the way you are.
-Always have someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to.
-Everything is better after a good bottle of wine with a friend. (I second that!)
Of course, all of this wisdom comes from having learned these things through a variety of ups and downs on the roller coaster of life. And for that, one final piece of wisdom submitted…
“Don’t regret decisions you have made. Live with them and get on with life. It is way too short.”
Till next time,
Karen
